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Apple Pie Lie

So a while back…like a couple of months ago…maybe more…my husband decided that we should bake an apple pie and take it down to our neighbour that doesn’t have a lot of food or a family to cook for.

It was a great idea, However, that week we just didn’t seem to have enough time to make a pie and he really didn’t want us to forget about it. So he went to the grocery store and bought one…took it out of the box and delivered it to her. I didn’t go for some reason.

Fast forward to last night. We were having small group in our home and hubby sees her just arriving home from work and tells her to come up for some pizza. She was very grateful as it was late and she hadn’t had supper yet.

She came up and met me in the kitchen and said that she was sorry that she didn’t have time to come and thank me for the pie. At first I completely forgot what she was talking about but then quickly told her not to worry about it… But that I was glad that she enjoyed it.

She then proceeded to tell me that was the best apple pie she had ever eaten. She goes on and on about the pie as I’m smiling and nodding…and then she hits me with this statement: “that was better than any store made pie. You did a really good job making it”

Meanwhile I’m watching her tell me this but see my hubby in the background smiling at me. I can’t believe he told her that I made the pie!!!! She’s going on and on about how all her friends had a piece and they just thought it was the best pie ever….better than any pie you could get in the store. I nod my head and tell her that I’m glad she liked it. Too stunned to tell her I didn’t bake it.

Fast forward to when the meeting is over and she’s leaving. I ask her if she would like some apples to take home with her as we have a huge bag of them. She said she would and then asked me if those were baking apples.

I told her no that they were just for Big E because he likes apples. She then compliments me on the pie again…over and over and then…..

Asks me for the recipe.


Please know that up until now I didn’t lie. I never told her that I made the pie…but I never told her I didn’t either.

At this point I really didn’t know what to do. So I told her that I didn’t have it on hand that I would have to look for it for her. She told me that was fine just to give it to her whenever I found it.

She left and do you know what happened next? Yup…my hubby got a stern talking to for telling her that I made the pie. He said he repeatedly told her I didn’t make it….but I’m not sure if I believe him. He was getting quite the chuckle out of the whole situation.

What about you? Have you ever been in a situation like this before? What happened?


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Throwback Thursday

This is a pic of our friend , Kirk, On my 28th birthday. He’s trying his first ever pickle.


He didn’t like it.

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Spilled Milk and Grace

This morning was a typical morning.  Big E’s alarm went off and he crawled into bed with us for a little morning time snuggle.  (Seriously…if he doesn’t get this it’s bad news for the rest of the day).  After about five minutes we got up and ready for the day.  7:30 hit and we settled down for breakfast and morning devotions.  Throughout devotions I reminded Big E over and over again to be careful not to spill his milk.  Devotions finished.  I told Big E to finish his milk and instead of drinking it normally he decided that holding on to it with four fingers (two on each hand) was much better than 10 fingers….thus spilling his milk everywhere.

I got upset.  Yup….it happens every. single. time.  He’s not paying attention and spills his drink all the time.  Seriously…the kid is five and I’m sure he will be drinking out of sippy cups until he’s twelve.  Anyway…I got upset.  Milk was wasted…paper towel was wasted.  He had to change his clothes…which results in me having to do more laundry than normal.  Why was I upset?  Maybe because I had told him at least a dozen times to be careful with his milk.  At least….a dozen times.

Then I sent him off to school….after I got mad at him.  After he apologized at least half a dozen times and after I DIDN’T say…”it’s ok…I know it was an accident.”  Yeah..big time mom fail right here.  (Pointing finger at myself)

Half an hour later I was in the car by myself and listening to my own music which is a very rare occassion in itself.  Three minutes into my drive the song “Grace like Rain” by Todd Agnew came on my ipod.  If you  haven’t heard it…have a listen.

And right there, into the chorus, God had a teachable moment with me.

“And Hallelujah Grace like rain falls down on me”

Grace like rain.

Let’s just take that literary shall we.  Rain falls.  Sometimes it falls softly…sometimes it pours and beats down on us….but it always comes down and refreshes things that need to be refreshed.  We need rain.

We need grace.  Big time.  Can you imagine a world without Grace? Isn’t it simply amazing to think that God is up there watching us and “showering” us with grace when we need it the most…sometimes when we don’t even deserve it?  Sometimes He showers it lightly…other times He pours it down on us.  Have you ever met somebody who wasn’t grateful for the grace they received?  Me either….grace is wonderful.  Grace makes the world go around.  Grace  makes you feel refreshed, so much better and so grateful.  God gives it….God provides it and God keeps pouring it out on us.

So my lesson???  Yeah..you guessed it.  Grace.  I should have given Big E grace this morning.  He’s five.  Yes..he should have been more careful but haven’t we all done things that we weren’t careful of.  Hasn’t there been somebody in your life that has told you not to do something and you went ahead and did it anyway…the end resulting in “spilled milk”?

This morning I prayed and thanked God for the teachable moment of Grace.  I could have easily gotten in an accident and been killed and the last thing that BIg E would have remembered was me being upset with him.  God gave me grace this morning and I intend to pass that along.

I apologized to Big E and told him that I love him even when he doesn’t listen to me and bad things happen.  I told him I will be try not to get upset next time and that I hope he forgives me.  He knows what he did was wrong.  I don’t need to tell him again.

Instead…I just need to give him grace.

~ Laura

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I used to do Wordless Wednesday but they were never wordless…because let’s face it…I can’t be quiet that long.  So I’ve changed it to Picture Wednesday on my blog.  🙂  Thought I’d share a cool picture of the week with you all each week.  So enjoy.


I just love this kid!


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It’s been a long time…but summer is over and it’s time for another book review.

This time I decided to review a devotional.  Now…obviously it’s a 365 day devotional and I haven’t done all 365 days of it but I did do a week’s worth and let me tell you I’m impressed.  First…let me introduce the book: Live second by Doug Bender


I am a hard one to impress devotional wise.  There are a few things I look for when I go to buy a new devotional book.

I like a scripture PASSAGE to read.  Not just a verse…a passage.  Something that will make me actually open my Bible…read it, think about it and then give me something to think about as well.  I have had a few devotionals that just give me one verse and then do the whole devotional for the day on that one verse.  Or I’ve had ones where they just give one scripture reference and I have to look up one verse.  Let me just tell you that I’m lazy.  For one verse..I will not look it up.  Or the worse one that I’ve read gave me a scripture verse but actually wrote it out on the top.  How is that bad  you may ask?  It’s not so much that…it’s when the author decided to put her own word in parenthesis.  I do not like that.  However, this devotional gives you a passage, makes you look it up, gives you a topic to read about (as in the actual devotional part of it) and then asks two questions afterwards.  I like that.  I like that alot.  It gets me actively involved in the word of God.

When I first started the devotional day one was to watch a Youtube video on the I am second series.  (Good series and short videos. If you haven’t watched them…you really should.)  And then asks questions about the video and how you can apply it to your life.  Not every day is like that but it’s a good change of pace when it does happen.  I also like that it gives you a QR code to scan into your phone or mobile device (as well as the actual address) so you can just scan it in.  Nice touch Mr. Bender!

Another thing that I liked about it is that it’s on my kindle.  Now…you can get it in any format of your choosing but I decided to review it on my kindle.  Let me tell you why I absolutely love it on my kindle device.  This comes back to the lazy part but I like that I can just hit my home button on my device and then go to my devotions…and when I’m done I can hit home again and go back to my book.  Super nice!!

Another thing I liked was that after the questions were asked they posted a hashtag so that you can connect with others on twitter with your answers.  So I can look up what others have say about the topic that I just read.

The only thing that I didn’t like that it seemed to ask the same two questions over and over again in the first week that I did it.  After the third day I just didn’t think about the questions any more.  They could have had more effective questions applying to the topic…even though the general overall topic was living second to Jesus.

This devotional is easy to understand….easy to apply to your daily life and just great.  I will continue doing it even after this review is published.  I highly recommend it.

I give it a five out of five suckers.

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As some of you know, my hubby and I are church planters.  We have been trying to plant a church where we live for the past four years.  Year one was great….had a lot of people coming.  But then a few people moved away and we have been just struggling to stay alive for the past year or so.

This year we decided that we needed to up our anty a little more, get on the ball, do lots of outreach…even if it’s just my hubby, Big E and I.  For this Sunday we decided to do a 10 foot banana split sundae.  We did this in our other church we were pastoring in New Brunswick and everybody loved it…so we thought…”hey why  not try it here?”

We tried it over the summer with some block parties that we did and it always went over well.  So this past Thursday we decided to go put out posters on the telephone poles around town advertising that we were having “The Best Sunday Ever!” and having a 10 foot long ice cream sundae.

Well Friday and Saturday it rained pretty much so we really didn’t know what would happen on Sunday when we arrived at church.  To be honest….I wasn’t really expecting a whole lot.  The past year has been a very disappointing year for us.  We have been let down, discouraged and frustrated beyond belief.  We thought doors were opening and then they slammed in our face.  Things just weren’t going according to our plan and we thought God had shut some doors.

Well…things aren’t supposed to go according to “our” plan are they?

Last night I was sitting in my chair thinking…”I really don’t want to go to church tomorrow.  It’s going to be discouraging.  Nobody is going to show up.  We have people coming to sing and nobody will be there…and that’s just embarassing.”


My faith was small.  Smaller than a mustard seed.  So small that you probably wouldn’t be able to see it under a microscope.  I was defeated.  I was ready to give up, throw in the towl….and walk away.

We went to church this morning.  10:00 came…we started church with 10 people.  Better than four…but I could feel that our crew was discouraged.  Then about 10:15 four more people showed up…and then at 10:30 eight others showed up.  So we had 22!  This is great news!!  It’s been a long time since we had 22.

I was excited…but quick to remind myself that I should have believed God would do big things in the first place.  I felt like a little kid who got scolded because my faith was so small….non existant really.

God is bigger than my faith…. THANK GOODNESS!  He can do things….only He can make things happen.  Only He knows the future.  Maybe our church won’t take off this year…(i’m hoping, praying and having faith that it does!) but at least we reached people today that may not have even heard about God before today.

Now….that’s worth more than any number in church attendance.

Praise God!


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1) Big E meeting new friends at school.

2) My cats.

3)  My church family (really this should be above my cats)

4) Best friends who listen.

5)  Friends who encourage.

6)  My new bedroom floor!

7)  the beautiful scenic view from my house.  Love looking out my window at night time.

8)  A husband who is a carpenter.  Saves so much money!!

9)  A comfy bed.

10) A wonderful Jesus who loves me so very much (again this should have been at the top)

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New bedroom floor!


New flooring in my bedroom finally!  No more yucky green carpet that I can’t step on with bare feet!!!  So excited!  Hubby didn’t have work yesterday and we’ve had the flooring sitting in our bedroom for the past year so we thought…hey why not.  🙂  The top picture is what it used  to look like before (we still have this ugly green carpet in our dining room).  However in the bedroom it was so gross.

So happy to have it in!

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Adoption update

A lot of you out there are probably wondering where we are on the adoption scale since I last wrote about it.

In simple truth….not any further.

We finished our 9-week course.  Now, we just wait.

Wait for our homestudy to begin.  We are hoping that with this they will be able to use our previous homestudy from BIg E’s adoption….but we will see.  The last time we talked to the social worker she said they were just starting on cases that were in the system before she went on maternity leave the year before.

So I’m thinking a year and a half before we even begin that.

Is it frustrating?  Yes…and no.  Yes because we want to get the ball rolling…but no because I’m not really focusing on it.  I’m patient in the waiting.

Say what?

Hahahaha..yup, I just said I was patient.

Who would have ever thought?  Certainly not I  🙂

But God has kept me patient.  In fact I only really think about it when somebody asks me about it.

Has to be a God thing….cause I am certainly not a patient person.  🙂

So…that’s the update.  That’s all I have for now.  Guess you will just have to be patient with me.  🙂


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Three weeks….going on four.

That’s how long it’s been since we have had a full week’s pay salary.

Two weeks my husband worked for the church and we are waiting on checks from them and last week my husband probably had about three days of work.

Yes…that’s better than nothing and we are definitely blessed to receive that.

I don’t write this to tell you about our woes.

Why? Because we don’t really seem to have any.

It’s weird……but in the three weeks that we have only made about $600.00 total we have been able to keep enough in the bank to ensure that our direct deposits come out.

Are our other bills paid?

No…..but our mortgage and our car bills are paid (twice) ….and we’ve had money to put gas in the car (twice)  plus enough for groceries. (once and a half) and we’ve even given our tithe.

How?  I have no idea.

Other than……God has blessed us.  He certainly certainly has.  Otherwise…it just doesn’t make sense.

Financially the money doesn’t add up.  Am I worried about paying our other bills?

Hubby has a couple of credit card bills for the company that need to be paid…and I think that worries me the most.  Other than that…the other ones will get paid when the checks come in.  God has sustained us…..kept us humble…and taught us a lesson that we seem to forget everytime.

“Trust in me” he says.


And in case I may have forgotten, this morning’s devotions reminded me again.  Here’s an excerpt from Jesus Calling by Sarah Young.  If you don’t have this devotional book then I highly recommend it.  Hubby had it first and he told me about it and I absolutely love it.  It’s based on scripture and it’s basically letters from God…written right to you.

“Walk with Me along paths of Trust.  The most direct route between point A and point B on your life-journey is the path of unwavering trust in Me.  When your faith falters, you choose a trail that meanders and takes you well out of your way.  You will get to point B eventually, but you will have lost precious time and energy.  as soon as you realize you have wandered from your trust-path, look to me and whisper ‘I trust You, Jesus.’  This affirmation will help you get back on track.

The farther you roam along paths of unbelief, the harder it is to remember that I am with you.  Anxious thoughts branch off in all directions, taking you farther and farther from awareness of My Presence.  You need to voice your trust in me frequently.  This simple act of faith will keep you walking along straight paths with Me.  Trust in Me with all your heart, and I will make your paths straight.”  (Isaiah 26:4, Psalm 9:10, Psalm 25: 4-5, Proverbs 3:5-6)

I prayed…and whispered the words: “I will trust you in this God.”  Because, He’s always been faithful, he’s always been trust worthy.  He’s always seen us through and we have not wanted for anything.

Each day I go to the  mailbox and wait for the cheques to arrive…and so far the mailbox has been empty.  Each day I must remind myself to say the words “I will trust you with this God.”

He will keep us, sustain us and provide for us…just like He already has.  Worrying isn’t going to do anything.  A daily battle I must fight…but I think I’m finally learning it.  🙂

~ Laura

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